Self-Help. How to start?

"First of all, make a paradise in your heart," improving positive vibrational feelings giving you conditions to truly love everyone, and practice this love with pleasure and no obligation.

"Move and the Way Will Open". God has already made His part, and we, made in the Creator's image, can do everything, including accepting His help. It is time to discover what the pure soul that we are really wants.

I had lots of fears and worries and I didn't know they existed. Negative feelings, that we think are normal, lower our vibrational level and attract undesirable situations, preventing us of doing our part.

The success of self-help is totally related to controling our minds and our thoughts, creating better feelings. You stop being a slave of your mind and, when negative (always totally useless) thoughts arise, you STOP and CHANGE them! Tell your mind "I am the boss here, and now I'm choosing a useful thought that makes me happy and raises my vibrational feelings."

Success of self-help also vanishes our judgement habits. You realise that no one is good or bad, simply people have different levels of awareness, and end up helping or disturbing the community. When one commits a mistake, he or she only needs to learn a better way, and be treated like a human being that is able to repair any damage caused.

Our world will be much better when we truly know ourselves, when we learn to appreciate and to feel grateful for the miracles that surround us. So, start creating a paradise inside your heart, in order to attract what you want. Reach a feeling of love and gratitude, since you, everyone and everything around you are miracles. Don't blame others, but find every disturbance inside yourself and fix them up. Learn how to love yourself so you will be able to love others without superprotecting or owning them, without letting them step on you, without ignoring your desires or your own happiness.

Don't forget to sum those teaching to your religious teaching. One doesn't replace the other. Books written by psychologists are real self-knowledge treasures, but they don't talk about the spiritual world. Religious books solve misteries about the spiritual world, explain causes and operate miracles, but raraly talk deep about self-knowledge, and sometimes cause people to feel fear or feel guilty, without questioning their own faith. Lets mix both!

Here is a list of books that I've read, that will definitely help you on your journey.

Johrei

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The Secret (Rhonda Byrne)	Manifest Your Desires (Esther and Jerry Hicks)	The Celestine Prophecy (James Redfield)	Keeping the love you find (Harville Hendrix)
The Ultimate Secret of Total Self-Confidence (Dr. Robert Anthony)	Law of Attraction (Michael J. Losier)	The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success (Deepak Chopra)	Overcoming Social Anxiety and Shyness (Gillian Butler)
The Power of Now (Eckhart Tolle)